Going Home Again: Family Communication Tips for Adults
You’re an adult now – really you are! Your employer thinks you’re an adult. Your friends have no doubts about your age and adulthood. You pay your bills, maintain a busy calendar, negotiate your rent or mortgage, and accomplish other “adult” tasks. And – most of the time – you actually believe you are an adult…
Then the phone rings, there’s a knock at the door or you are in the process of honorably fulfilling that adult responsibility – a visit to your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins or other extended family members – and suddenly you seem to shrink to small-child stature. While the law says you officially became an adult at a specific age, you may not really feel “grown up” until several years later. But, someone forgot to tell your family! Your parents (and others who saw you grow up) still see you as a child. You are still, to your family, a kid. No matter how successful you are, your family may have a tough time forging a new relationship – with the adult you now are. That’s normal and happens to most of us.
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